Here are the 10 most important Qualities which Woman expects from her man. All the girls expect these from their partners. And for boys, “If you follow these 10 steps, your partner will love you so much, and your life would be so perfect”.
10 Most Important Qualities that Woman expects from her man:
Don’t feel nasty the next time you turn someone down because “the chemistry” just isn’t there. Usually, women are drawn to men based on attraction. “We think to ourselves, can we start a conversation with this person? Do I feel excited and happy when I talk to this person?. Yes, these are qualities which help to begins a basis, to create a deeper connection, and a relationship with this person.
This one is non-negotiable. “Women want to be with someone who they feel safe with at all times. They want to say ‘With you, I feel safe. I don’t have to be defensive. I know that when I’m around you, I’m going to be okay,'”.
If your man is trying to change you, then he isn’t the man for you. “[Women] should be looking for a man who isn’t assessing them and constantly trying to upgrade them or improve them”. “We tell our daughter when you feel judged by the guy, export him to the door or leave yourself.” When someone criticizes or judges you, they’re saying you’re not okay as you are, you have to change and then I’ll accept you.
You don’t want someone who doesn’t ask for what he wants. “It’s one of the most important things that allows a relationship to thrive well. And so many men can’t do that. They don’t feel like they can ask for anything, so they don’t tell the woman they’re dating that they’d like a back rub every now and then or a foot rub.” Healthy couples tell each other what they need and what actions make them feel most loved and cared about.
It’s very hard to build a relationship with someone who is closed off. “A man who is vulnerable has a counter-cultural desire to step away from the high position which men are raised to feel comfortable being in. To make a partnership, a man has to be willing to be vulnerable and he has to open his heart in order for that to happen.” And heads up ladies: this one goes for you too.
This is a big one because it has three parts. “Stability means emotionally stable (so not flying off at the handle), then economically stable, and also relationally stable”. If you’re not familiar with the third part, it means you can count on him to be predictable, reliable, and that he’s essentially someone you could rely on if you owned a home together or had a child with him.
If you’ve ever felt less than or silenced in a relationship, it might be because your partner wasn’t treating you as their equal. “The cultural discrepancy between equality that’s been around for thousands of years where women were unequal to men in every way, socially, economically, politically s**ually, that’s changing. Now women want to be seen as equals to men and not have to compete with men for dominance.”
It’s okay to want to influence your partner. In fact, relationships are more successful when men allow themselves to be influenced by their partners. “The majority of women already do this according to research, but it’s not the same for men.” Being open to being influenced means the man shows awareness of his partner’s emotions needs and responds to them.
That means someone who stays focused on the talker – rather than looking at their cell phone or other distractions – but this goes both ways. A woman should be emotionally present while her significant other is talking, and she should expect him to do the same in return. But being present also includes being responsive. It means when someone texts or calls their partner, the other people should respond as soon as possible, or let them know if it’s going to be a while before they can respond.
10.Curiosity (About Her!)
It’s the important that you feel like your partner is interested in you. “Should tell [couples] to shift from judgment to curiosity. Instead of judging a person about their actions and what they do, be curious about it. Wonder why they dress that way or why they act like this”. However, she warns that you don’t want a person who interviews or grills you in conversation.